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Does Your Love Life Feel “On Hold?” Here’s Why…

25 July 2009 No Comment

Does your love life feel like an endless, uphill battle that leaves you feeling completely hopeless at times?

If every relationship you’ve been in lately is “close, but not quite” and you can’t even see a glimmer of your soulmate in your future, you may be in a special astrological cycle in your life called a “cycle of Saturn.”

This is a time when just about everything in your life is harder than it should be: love, money, career, health, and friendships.

All of us, at one time or another in our lives, struggle with tough stuff - we don’t feel loved, fulfilled or particularly fit and healthy.

We have bad days, bad weeks, and sometimes even bad months where nothing we do seems to go right and we feel unattractive and unloved.

But if you’re feeling like your life has been “one thing after another” for much longer than just a week or two when it comes to heartbreak, loneliness, health issues or career struggles, keep reading…

Because I’m about to reveal how you can tell if what you’re experiencing is temporary or LONG-LASTING, or if it’s something else altogether.

You see, the difficult periods of life - when we feel unloved, unhealthy and just plain UNLUCKY - can be predicted with astrology.

These are periods in which no matter how hard we try to attain our goals, everything just takes longer, more effort or just plain doesn’t work out.

It’s when you’ve done just about EVERYTHING you can think of to find your soulmate and somehow all your efforts fall short.

For example, you try internet dating and the only guys who pursue you are total duds you wouldn’t want within 5 feet of you, and the ones you like never call again after one or two dates.

You try joining clubs and being more social and saying “yes” to every invitation that you get and still, the only attractive men you meet are already married or unavailable.

You fall for a man but he’s all wrong. He’s got so many “issues” he can open up a newsstand, or maybe he’s involved with someone or still hung up on a former girlfriend or ex-wife…

Or he’s just not the man you thought he was when you first met him.

Nothing is working. Months or even years go by and you’re still single and feeling hopeless and unlovable.

You wonder to yourself, “Will he EVER come? Will I always be alone? What’s WRONG with me?”

Well, I’m here to tell you that nothing is wrong with you!

What you’re experiencing can be seen in the stars.

I’m guessing that what you’re experiencing is a particularly difficult cycle of Saturn.

And the reason I know this is because the majority of women who seek my astrology services feel JUST as you do - and when they’re feeling hopeless are in face in some version of this astrological period.

This cycle of Saturn is a phase that lasts a full seven-and-a-half years and can strike a person at any age.

(Yikes - kind of sounds like some parasite or disease or something!)

All of us go through these cycles at one time or another.

For some people, this can happen all at once. For others, they’ll be in one version of this and then have a break of a few years.

Only to feel like their “bad luck” comes back later…

If you were sitting here in front of me right now and we were having a conversation about this, I’d be able to tell you’re in a cycle of Saturn just by the things you’d say to me:

- That you haven’t felt like “yourself” in a while.

- That everything feels “hard” and you’re drained by a heaviness, a loneliness, or a hopelessness that crashes the party every time you start to think things are getting better.

- That you’ve tried this and that and nothing has worked out, no matter how enthusiastic and motivated you felt at first.

When you’re in a cycle of Saturn, you may feel like you need to TRY HARDER at whatever it is you’re trying to do, like being extra sweet and accommodating to a man so he’ll somehow “realize”that you’re The One…

Or going on 50 dates in 50 days, or yo-yo dieting to lose those last 20 pounds so you can feel good about yourself…

You may feel like you’ve been slacking or that you’re a failure.

You’re not - you’re just in the MEANTIME.

Cycles of Saturn can feel like that - MEAN.

But they’re VERY IMPORTANT because it’s in these GAPS in your life that your figure out the next big chapter of your life…

These are the times when people GROW the most, and evaluate who they are and what they REALLY want (not what you THOUGHT you wanted), only to come OUT of these times so much stronger and more fully who you’re truly SUPPOSED to be.

Seriously - you’ll look back on these times and be SO GLAD…

This is when women say to me - “Thank GOD I got out of that bad marriage… Thank goodness my job got so hard that I was forced to do some- thing else, because now I’m really living my purpose… If it weren’t for those bad years, I’d never be so strong and grateful for what I have today…”

So I promise you - if you’re in a cycle of Saturn it’s not your fault and you’re not a failure and it’s not because you haven’t been trying hard enough.

Because when you’re in this difficult cycle, it just simply won’t be your TIME to find your soulmate or get that DREAM job.

Since it’s not your time (YET!), it also means that it’s nothing you’re doing or not doing that’s to blame for your pain and setbacks.

However, there are things you can do to feel better and make the most of it.

Just knowing what’s going on will make you feel SO much better…

And once you know how the stars are affecting your life, you can make the choice to do certain things that will make this difficult period fareasier.

You can do things to make this time a gift, not a curse.

This may mean going back to school, reexamining your role in a relationship that’s no longer serving you, or just focusing more on yourself and your deeper goals.

And may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!


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