There are two aspects to your love life - the things you can do something about, the “will” of love, and the things you can do nothing about, the “grace” of love.

(And no, this has nothing to do with the hilarious TV sitcom…)

There is a way to quickly know BOTH - what you CAN and MUST do with a specific man that will work WITH HIM to draw him closer and make your relationship be the best it can be…

And what you have to accept about your connection (or DISCONNECTION) to him that can’t be changed (and isn’t your imagination).

Now, sometimes your romantic troubles aren’t because of that astrological “grace” - the “you can’t-do-anything-about-it” stuff.

Sometimes there’s something going on in your love life that’s… well… err… how should I say it?

ALL YOUR FAULT!

I’m sorry - that was harsh… Let’s call it the “in your control” stuff.

The “will” side of love.

And finding this out is great news, too, because this is the stuff you CAN change.

By switching from doing what doesn’t work to what does, you’ll be amazed to find things can improve dramatically with a man almost overnight.

Most women think they know what they’re doing when it comes to men.

They think they’ve got men all figured out.

But I gotta tell you - I’ve been amazed to find that it’s quite the opposite.

Virtually every woman I’ve ever worked with, no matter how lovely, successful, educated, or otherwise productive, has NO idea what to DO when it comes to succeeding with men.

So much of what she’s DOING isn’t working.

So much of the time in my private sessions, I put the chart aside and give relationship coaching that has nothing to do with astrology.

I cover things like how to talk to men in a way that makes them WANT to listen, and actually respond well.

I talk at length about how to understand the fundamental difference between the way men and women communicate - it’s not just my big, fat opinion (though I’m full of those!).

It’s agreed upon by sociologists, linguists, psychologists, and anthropologists the world over.

So perhaps you’ve heard of it before.

Knowing this ONE idea can forever change all of your interactions with every man in your life - and forever eliminate the need for conflict.

For real.

What is it?

In a nutshell, women want to CONNECT, and men want to COMPETE.

So, the minute you make them wrong, have the better idea, or give them an “innocent suggestion” when they haven’t asked for one, they want to KILL YOU.

Seriously, try it.

Correct a man.

Tell him he’s blowing it.

Start every sentence with, “Don’t do that - do this…”

Or, “You know what you should do…?”

Because men are competitive, what he hears you saying is, “Hey loser, you have no idea what you’re doing. But I do. You need me to enlighten you - so listen up…”

With each of these approaches, notice the sweat collecting on his brow.

Recognize the twitch at his temple.

See his forehead furrow and lips tighten.

Then see him turn around and leave…possibly for good!

I can’t tell you how many times a great woman has sought my services, and lost a man
she really loved over this.

And she has NO IDEA what happened.

She’ll say to me, “I don’t know what his problem is. All I did was tell him how to (FILL-IN-THE-BLANK). I was helping. He should be grateful!”

And I shake my head, sigh, and think, “Aw, another good man ran for the hills to get away from his ego-crushing woman.”

(You can substitute the word “ego” with a sensitive part of the male anatomy, by the way…)

If you ever do this, I suggest you stop immediately.

I also suggest, in the spirit of men being competitive (i.e., needing to feel like they’re “winning” all the time) that you notice when they do something right, or make an effort.

Acknowledge him once in a while.

Thank him for the things he does that you like.

Tell him how much it means to you.

And then notice a whole other man come forward…

See him be more relaxed and happy around you.

Observe him do more of the things you appreciate than usual - more often.

Realize that he’s becoming the man of your dreams… and you’re starting to look exactly like the woman of his.

And may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!